Is he showing up the way you need him to?

Our present challenges prepare us for future successes…we just can't see it yet.

Question – Is he really sick if he cancelled the date on my way there? Background – New to dating and the guy I planned on meeting for...

Background – I broke up with my boyfriend 6 months ago because of my mental health. Since then, my friends continue to bring him up in...

Background – Dated a guy for 5 weeks, he love bombed and said I love you pretty fast which felt off to me, so I ended it. He took it...

Question – What does it mean when your ex always checks your stories? Background – My ex and I dated for 4 years and broke up 8 months...

Change is the accumulation of several micro-steps we take towards it.

Background – Dated a guy for five months but at the start of the year and inconsistent with communication, he ended it saying he wasn’t...

DTR - (re)Define The Relationship with Rejection Time and time again, I’ve been rejected more times than I’d care to admit. Often times, when we think of rejection, we think of failure. The two seem intrinsically intertwined like some sort of Loser Award we receive as a consolation prize for trying. I’ve been rejected by the guy I was dating. I’ve been rejected from the small, dark, dirty and over-priced room for rent in the basement of a tiny post-war home that had a weird

Background – We matched online and went on three dates. When I was in the Uber on my way, he texted to reschedule saying he had to stay...

patience and the art of bike replacement Find out how Writing Off a Defective Bike Taught Me Patience & Letting Go... Have you had wanted something so bad that the gap between you and having it seemed immense? That once you released the impatience you felt and released any attachment to getting it, you actually got it? …And that time felt as though it passed quickly? The beauty in letting go and patience is an ongoing theme in life. Now, I know that Life has and will delive

Background – I matched with a guy on a dating app a couple months ago and we’ve been texting regularly since then, but he said he’s not...

That perhaps life gives us these repeating patterns or lessons not as punishment but to rewrite them with the lessons already learned