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Am I wrong for feeling dismissed when my boyfriend isn’t there for me?
Is he showing up the way you need him to?

Kaley Evans
Sep 6, 20242 min read


Present Challenges Prepare You for Future Successes
Our present challenges prepare us for future successes…we just can't see it yet.

Kaley Evans
Sep 4, 20244 min read


Is he really sick if he cancelled the date on my way there?
Question – Is he really sick if he cancelled the date on my way there? Background – New to dating and the guy I planned on meeting for...

Kaley Evans
Aug 30, 20241 min read


Am I over-reacting when it comes to my friends disrespecting my boundaries when they mention my ex?
Background – I broke up with my boyfriend 6 months ago because of my mental health. Since then, my friends continue to bring him up in...

Kaley Evans
Aug 23, 20242 min read


He left his hat at my place post break up – should I contact him?
Background – Dated a guy for 5 weeks, he love bombed and said I love you pretty fast which felt off to me, so I ended it. He took it...

Kaley Evans
Aug 16, 20242 min read


What does it mean when your ex always checks your stories?
Question – What does it mean when your ex always checks your stories? Background – My ex and I dated for 4 years and broke up 8 months...

Kaley Evans
Aug 2, 20242 min read


Change is the Accumulation of Micro-Steps
Change is the accumulation of several micro-steps we take towards it.

Kaley Evans
Jul 31, 20246 min read


What does it mean when you date someone, only to disappear and reappear months later?
Background – Dated a guy for five months but at the start of the year and inconsistent with communication, he ended it saying he wasn’t...

Kaley Evans
Jul 26, 20241 min read


DTR: (Re)defining the Relationship to Rejection
Time and time again, I’ve been rejected more times than I’d care to admit. Often times, when we think of rejection, we think of failure....

Kaley Evans
Jul 24, 20245 min read


What to do when your date cancelled last minute for two of the three dates?
Background – We matched online and went on three dates. When I was in the Uber on my way, he texted to reschedule saying he had to stay...

Kaley Evans
Jul 19, 20242 min read
Patience & the Art of Bike Replacement
Find out how Writing Off a Defective Bike Taught Me Patience & Letting Go... Have you had wanted something so bad that the gap between...

Kaley Evans
Jul 17, 20245 min read


What does it mean when a guy says he’s “not looking for a relationship now but always down to meet up”?
Background – I matched with a guy on a dating app a couple months ago and we’ve been texting regularly since then, but he said he’s not...

Kaley Evans
Jul 12, 20242 min read


Re-do to Re-write
That perhaps life gives us these repeating patterns or lessons not as punishment but to rewrite them with the lessons already learned

Kaley Evans
Jul 10, 20245 min read
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