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Is he really sick if he cancelled the date on my way there?
Question – Is he really sick if he cancelled the date on my way there? Background – New to dating and the guy I planned on meeting for...

Kaley Evans
Aug 30, 20241 min read


He left his hat at my place post break up – should I contact him?
Background – Dated a guy for 5 weeks, he love bombed and said I love you pretty fast which felt off to me, so I ended it. He took it...

Kaley Evans
Aug 16, 20242 min read


What does it mean when you date someone, only to disappear and reappear months later?
Background – Dated a guy for five months but at the start of the year and inconsistent with communication, he ended it saying he wasn’t...

Kaley Evans
Jul 26, 20241 min read


DTR: (Re)defining the Relationship to Rejection
DTR - (re)Define The Relationship with Rejection Time and time again, I’ve been rejected more times than I’d care to admit. Often times, when we think of rejection, we think of failure. The two seem intrinsically intertwined like some sort of Loser Award we receive as a consolation prize for trying. I’ve been rejected by the guy I was dating. I’ve been rejected from the small, dark, dirty and over-priced room for rent in the basement of a tiny post-war home that had a weird

Kaley Evans
Jul 24, 20245 min read


What to do when your date cancelled last minute for two of the three dates?
Background – We matched online and went on three dates. When I was in the Uber on my way, he texted to reschedule saying he had to stay...

Kaley Evans
Jul 19, 20242 min read
Patience & the Art of Bike Replacement
patience and the art of bike replacement Find out how Writing Off a Defective Bike Taught Me Patience & Letting Go... Have you had wanted something so bad that the gap between you and having it seemed immense? That once you released the impatience you felt and released any attachment to getting it, you actually got it? …And that time felt as though it passed quickly? The beauty in letting go and patience is an ongoing theme in life. Now, I know that Life has and will delive

Kaley Evans
Jul 17, 20245 min read


Re-do to Re-write
That perhaps life gives us these repeating patterns or lessons not as punishment but to rewrite them with the lessons already learned

Kaley Evans
Jul 10, 20245 min read


How do you move past a breakup?
Advice on how to move past a relationship breakup.

Kaley Evans
Jul 5, 20244 min read


First Life Whispers, then it Shouts.
So often in life, we’re directed down different paths. Sometimes, we use our own free will to make those path changes...

Kaley Evans
Jun 26, 20246 min read


Falling Apart Means Falling Together
In life, when it feels as though everything is falling apart, it’s actually falling together.

Kaley Evans
Jun 19, 20246 min read


99 Things That are NOT Doing the Thing
Have you ever noticed that when you had an assignment or paper due, your place has never looked cleaner? Or you never realized how much...

Kaley Evans
Jun 12, 20247 min read


Three Fears Holding You Back From the Life You Deserve
The three fears that are holding you back from the living the life you've dreamed of.

Kaley Evans
May 15, 20246 min read


In This Life….
In life…. People will come and go. For the ones who leave, let them. For the one that stay, cherish them. Challenges and setbacks will...

Kaley Evans
Apr 10, 20241 min read
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