Background –
I’ve been seeing this guy for two months and he’s been clear from the start he’s only looking for something casual, which I’m fine with, but I’m curious to know if he has a partner or not. Should I ask him?
Response –
I guess the bigger question to ask yourself would be: Would knowing this piece of information be important to know?
As in to avoid unknowing getting yourself tangled up with someone who’s committed in a monogamous relationship and is cheating? Which is totally understandable.
But by asking yourself the why behind you want to ask will allow for you to explore where this is coming from.
Could it be you’re concerned with catching feelings for him? Are you worried about the possibility of contracting something if he has one or other partners?
Regardless of the why behind asking this, it’s also perfectly normal and okay to ask someone you have or are interested in being intimate with this question.
Every casual thing has its own terms and condition. If knowing this information is important in your decision-making on whether or not to engage with this person, then ask.
Best of luck!
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